"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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does she want it?

billy_bronx

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ok this girl i met and known for a few months said to me that she was a virgin and wanted to remain a virgin until she got married. So we became mates although she wanted more.

However recently shes been sending me all these txt messages which suggest she wants more, and i don't so jokingly i text her sayin "im curious about u seem so innocent" and she text back "i am innocent but jus how curious r u as im willing to take a trip on the wild side"...so i text her some more and she said she thinks we should go out on a "d8". I asked her to suggest a few venues to see what she had in mind. She said "cinema, restaurent, your place, my place, shower" so i picked "my place but said my place meant hotel" she said she was up for it. But im not sure if this means sex.

Because to me Hotel means sex, but im not sure although the signals shes giving suggest she wants it..

What do you think as i dont want to book a hotel and get nothing...
should i ask her outright or wait?

How do i find out for sure...without saying something wrong:crazy: :crazy: :crazy:

If youve taken your time to read this please do leave a reply as it will help me make a decision.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Umm, that kind of screams that she wants sex to me. Otherwise just go and see what she's up for when you're there.
 

HarlequinMan

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Man that screams sex to me as well.......she said she wanted to meet you in the shower? either she is completely naive or she is coming on to you.....gl with your wild sex man.
 

billy_bronx

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hey ill let ya ppl kno how it goes maybe even make a mobile video ..lol as done in the past..lol wish me luck... 2 hotel dates in one week...all thanks to good advice...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Maxtro

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Please please please, type in proper English form. Also your signature is somewhat annoying.

As for your issue. Of course she wants sex! What does she have to do, get naked and tell you to stick it in her?!

So did you have sex with her? What do you mean by "2 hotel dates in one week?"
 

DonJuan11

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billy_bronx said:
"i am innocent but jus how curious r u as im willing to take a trip on the wild side"...so i text her some more and she said she thinks we should go out on a "d8". I asked her to suggest a few venues to see what she had in mind. She said "cinema, restaurent, your place, my place, shower" so i picked "my place but said my place meant hotel" she said she was up for it. But im not sure if this means sex.
girl has a good porn collection.
 

DonJuan11

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Yes if you're trying to get attention with that signature it isn't working. Either write it normally or eliminate it.

Are you the "Yell and Scream" guy?

Yell and Scream guy: You stupid Bvtch! I said 10% cream in the coffee, not 50%!! Go to hell you stupid Bvtch!!!"

I think I'm falling in love already.
 
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