"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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does she want it?

billy_bronx

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ok this girl i met and known for a few months said to me that she was a virgin and wanted to remain a virgin until she got married. So we became mates although she wanted more.

However recently shes been sending me all these txt messages which suggest she wants more, and i don't so jokingly i text her sayin "im curious about u seem so innocent" and she text back "i am innocent but jus how curious r u as im willing to take a trip on the wild side"...so i text her some more and she said she thinks we should go out on a "d8". I asked her to suggest a few venues to see what she had in mind. She said "cinema, restaurent, your place, my place, shower" so i picked "my place but said my place meant hotel" she said she was up for it. But im not sure if this means sex.

Because to me Hotel means sex, but im not sure although the signals shes giving suggest she wants it..

What do you think as i dont want to book a hotel and get nothing...
should i ask her outright or wait?

How do i find out for sure...without saying something wrong:crazy: :crazy: :crazy:

If youve taken your time to read this please do leave a reply as it will help me make a decision.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thorns

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Umm, that kind of screams that she wants sex to me. Otherwise just go and see what she's up for when you're there.
 

HarlequinMan

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Man that screams sex to me as well.......she said she wanted to meet you in the shower? either she is completely naive or she is coming on to you.....gl with your wild sex man.
 

billy_bronx

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hey ill let ya ppl kno how it goes maybe even make a mobile video ..lol as done in the past..lol wish me luck... 2 hotel dates in one week...all thanks to good advice...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Maxtro

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Please please please, type in proper English form. Also your signature is somewhat annoying.

As for your issue. Of course she wants sex! What does she have to do, get naked and tell you to stick it in her?!

So did you have sex with her? What do you mean by "2 hotel dates in one week?"
 

DonJuan11

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billy_bronx said:
"i am innocent but jus how curious r u as im willing to take a trip on the wild side"...so i text her some more and she said she thinks we should go out on a "d8". I asked her to suggest a few venues to see what she had in mind. She said "cinema, restaurent, your place, my place, shower" so i picked "my place but said my place meant hotel" she said she was up for it. But im not sure if this means sex.
girl has a good porn collection.
 

DonJuan11

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Yes if you're trying to get attention with that signature it isn't working. Either write it normally or eliminate it.

Are you the "Yell and Scream" guy?

Yell and Scream guy: You stupid Bvtch! I said 10% cream in the coffee, not 50%!! Go to hell you stupid Bvtch!!!"

I think I'm falling in love already.
 
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