there is this girl i my class that i really like and i think she really likes me too. we are always talking and laughing together and i notice her staring at me a lot and when i say hi to her she smiles and blushes and says hi back. also she is really nice to me and tries to make me laugh a lot. she also finds excuses to touch me and she always gives me the "puppy dog eyes" look. but today i tried a little experiment to see how much she likes me. usually when i walk into class and i see her i smile and say hi and she smiles back and we start talking and good stuff but today i decided not to say hi to her or start talking to her and see what she did. she didnt say a word to me all class. so now i am wondering if she still likes me? yesterday me and her were working together and she was smiling and laughing and touching me a lot. but now i am unsure if she really does like me. what should i do and should i ask her out?
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does she still like me?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Girls mirror.
Only one true way to know if she likes you. Ask her out.
Only one true way to know if she likes you. Ask her out.
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Well, without knowing the full ins and outs of your situation, it certainly looks that way.garfield said:
Men are generally expected to lead and the girls to follow. You did what you did, and she followed likewise.
She's either asking her friends the same question or she doesn't give two hoots. Like I said, only one way to find out.
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Stop asking questions and make moves. Ask her out if she says yes good, if not ,fine. Tell her you are going go kart racing and she should come along. Have fun with her. While you're in line play games with her like 21 questions of I'be never or some ****. Have fun and st the end go in for the kiss and escalate.garfield said:
I basically laid this out for you so all there is to do is do it. Go kart racing is just an example but don't do anything boring like a movie. Do something physical and compettive. Go to chuck e cheese if you want.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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That's boring dude. Set the tone for future dates and sex and do something physical and competitive.garfield said:
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You have to transition. Basically spark up a conversation and transition that to something outside of school. So maybe talk about something you had trouble with in class and suggest a study group after school? Then once you get her out of there make bigger transitions to other places. I think this would be the same as escalating.garfield said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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That works. Just make sure you don't ask in s creepy way. Start talking about her guitar and then ask if she's any good. Then tell her to show you some tricks or whatever after school at her place your place wherever. Just make sure you sit close to her when you're there and ask her to play some love song type **** then escalate.garfield said:
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Where else would her guitar be? Just be vague. Say lets get together and play guiter on THIS day. Make sure you have a date. Should I come over to your place or you to mine? A safety measure would be to argue that whichever one of you had the most guitar equipment is the house that this should happen at.garfield said: