there is this girl i my class that i really like and i think she really likes me too. we are always talking and laughing together and i notice her staring at me a lot and when i say hi to her she smiles and blushes and says hi back. also she is really nice to me and tries to make me laugh a lot. she also finds excuses to touch me and she always gives me the "puppy dog eyes" look. but today i tried a little experiment to see how much she likes me. usually when i walk into class and i see her i smile and say hi and she smiles back and we start talking and good stuff but today i decided not to say hi to her or start talking to her and see what she did. she didnt say a word to me all class. so now i am wondering if she still likes me? yesterday me and her were working together and she was smiling and laughing and touching me a lot. but now i am unsure if she really does like me. what should i do and should i ask her out?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
does she still like me?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Only one true way to know if she likes you. Ask her out.
Only one true way to know if she likes you. Ask her out.
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Well, without knowing the full ins and outs of your situation, it certainly looks that way.garfield said:
Men are generally expected to lead and the girls to follow. You did what you did, and she followed likewise.
She's either asking her friends the same question or she doesn't give two hoots. Like I said, only one way to find out.
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Stop asking questions and make moves. Ask her out if she says yes good, if not ,fine. Tell her you are going go kart racing and she should come along. Have fun with her. While you're in line play games with her like 21 questions of I'be never or some ****. Have fun and st the end go in for the kiss and escalate.garfield said:
I basically laid this out for you so all there is to do is do it. Go kart racing is just an example but don't do anything boring like a movie. Do something physical and compettive. Go to chuck e cheese if you want.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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That's boring dude. Set the tone for future dates and sex and do something physical and competitive.garfield said:
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You have to transition. Basically spark up a conversation and transition that to something outside of school. So maybe talk about something you had trouble with in class and suggest a study group after school? Then once you get her out of there make bigger transitions to other places. I think this would be the same as escalating.garfield said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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That works. Just make sure you don't ask in s creepy way. Start talking about her guitar and then ask if she's any good. Then tell her to show you some tricks or whatever after school at her place your place wherever. Just make sure you sit close to her when you're there and ask her to play some love song type **** then escalate.garfield said:
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Where else would her guitar be? Just be vague. Say lets get together and play guiter on THIS day. Make sure you have a date. Should I come over to your place or you to mine? A safety measure would be to argue that whichever one of you had the most guitar equipment is the house that this should happen at.garfield said: