"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Does she really mean it?

snoop8

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ok well this girl is my ex, we were talkin and she said something that got me mad. something about wasting my time, so i just tried stop talkin to her for a while, she knows i have a girlfriend already, but she said this, does she really mean it?

Cristal (7/14/2005 10:34:08 AM): mijo u still mad at me?
Cristal (7/14/2005 10:34:09 AM): lol
Cristal (7/14/2005 10:34:10 AM): i wuz j/p.....
Cristal (7/14/2005 10:34:14 AM): u know how i am
carlos (7/14/2005 10:44:13 AM): sure u were
Cristal (7/14/2005 10:45:55 AM): i wuz for real mijo
Cristal (7/14/2005 10:45:56 AM): i'm sowwy
carlos (7/14/2005 10:46:08 AM): yea ok
Cristal (7/14/2005 10:46:19 AM):
Cristal (7/14/2005 10:46:22 AM):
Cristal (7/14/2005 10:46:25 AM):
Cristal (7/14/2005 10:46:31 AM): dont b mad no more.....
Cristal (7/14/2005 10:46:34 AM): u know i wuv u

the first missing line was a lil smiley of a sad face, the second it was a winkinin face, the third was a hug. ummmm well might she really mean it? ok thanks people
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oakraiderz2

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Have sex with her and find out.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Be honest.

Are you really that confused or worried about that.
 
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