"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Does she really mean it?

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snoop8

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ok well this girl is my ex, we were talkin and she said something that got me mad. something about wasting my time, so i just tried stop talkin to her for a while, she knows i have a girlfriend already, but she said this, does she really mean it?

Cristal (7/14/2005 10:34:08 AM): mijo u still mad at me?
Cristal (7/14/2005 10:34:09 AM): lol
Cristal (7/14/2005 10:34:10 AM): i wuz j/p.....
Cristal (7/14/2005 10:34:14 AM): u know how i am
carlos (7/14/2005 10:44:13 AM): sure u were
Cristal (7/14/2005 10:45:55 AM): i wuz for real mijo
Cristal (7/14/2005 10:45:56 AM): i'm sowwy
carlos (7/14/2005 10:46:08 AM): yea ok
Cristal (7/14/2005 10:46:19 AM):
Cristal (7/14/2005 10:46:22 AM):
Cristal (7/14/2005 10:46:25 AM):
Cristal (7/14/2005 10:46:31 AM): dont b mad no more.....
Cristal (7/14/2005 10:46:34 AM): u know i wuv u

the first missing line was a lil smiley of a sad face, the second it was a winkinin face, the third was a hug. ummmm well might she really mean it? ok thanks people
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Have sex with her and find out.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Be honest.

Are you really that confused or worried about that.
 
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