Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

Does she or Doesn't she?

ZNRA

New Member
Joined
Jan 26, 2006
Messages
2
Reaction score
0
Age
42
Location
London
Hey,

this is my first message up here. basically, last year I had a hot chick in a seminar at college. I liked her but didn't talk to her or give her much impression I liked her because I had a wifey at the time. Little things I noticed about her around me was walking right close to me when we left seminars, then this one time randomly laughing out loud when my phone rang in class and my initial reaction was "****!".
So anyway, a year passes without me seeing her... before then though, I found her profile on an internet site and took a peek at it. Then this website had this new option to see who's been visiting each others profiles, so I checked out who visited mine and she was on the list. But this may have been because she saw me on hers, who knows?

I saw her the first time out just before christmas and she was in the hall, laughing with a friend of hers, I saw her and she saw me, and when she did she looked shocked and turned away real quick. Then I saw her again a few times and even though I was initiating eye contact she wouldn't look me in the eye. However, last time I was out, I got talking to this chick who models for a big agency, and when I looked around Im sure she was looking right at us. Apparently she's available but unobtainable, and Im told she says shes very selective. Yet I cant figure out how to approach her or if she even likes me or if she does and is playing tricks with me... a little advice here please?

Thanks!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

damnbugs

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 1, 2004
Messages
98
Reaction score
0
Location
South Florida
One way to find out.

No one here can tell you if she likes you or not. You are going to hve to take the leap.

Next time you see her walk straight up to her and say- with a big confident smile...

"How you doin'" Joey Tribiany style
 

ZNRA

New Member
Joined
Jan 26, 2006
Messages
2
Reaction score
0
Age
42
Location
London
Cheers man, thats the reaction I tend to get from everyone haha.. hmm, alright so lets say this girl's like traditional... would it be too bold to just walk up to her and ask her if she wants to chill straight away, or just get talking to her when I see her from time to time like a friend said?

Like I say, she's meant to be hot s*it so I reckon she'd be used to guys just walking up and asking her out... I need an angle... but what?
 

wheelin&dealin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 10, 2002
Messages
1,924
Reaction score
6
Location
Vancouver, BC
Hey man, all this analysis is driving me crazy. He says.. She says.. It's all useless jibberish. Go up to this girl the next time you see her, talk about a bunch of bullsh*t like how class is and stuff, then at the end of the conversation say "why don't you write your number down and we'll do something sometime". Call her up 4 days later and set-up a date to go out for drinks.
 
Top