Me and my ex-gf dated for a couple years but she broke up with me a little over a month ago. We are still fvcking despite the fact we broke up. Well Halloween night I had a ONS and I didn't wear a condom but am giong to set up an appointment to get tested tomorrow. I really want get back together with my ex. Does she deserve to know or is it none of her business. I'm really stressing out over this because I am afraid if I tell her she will want nothing to do with me anymore.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
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Does she need to know?
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oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
As long as youre clean i say **** it.
WC2
Master Don Juan
You know what, the old me who had nothing to hide and told the brutal truth to just about everyone would say, "Yes, f*ck it I'm a straight up person."bud_2005 said:Me and my ex-gf dated for a couple years but she broke up with me a little over a month ago. We are still fvcking despite the fact we broke up. Well Halloween night I had a ONS and I didn't wear a condom but am giong to set up an appointment to get tested tomorrow. I really want get back together with my ex. Does she deserve to know or is it none of her business. I'm really stressing out over this because I am afraid if I tell her she will want nothing to do with me anymore.
Years later, I'm still the same brutally truthful person, but let me give you this advice that I HAVE learned :
DO NOT tell other women about what you have done in the past. This information becomes ammunition once your girl wants to get back at you.
I've been in and out of stupid relationships and long bouts with EX's.
I'm telling you, I'm telling you, I'm telling you, there is no good in spilling the beans to any woman. Whenever you fight she will bring up the past and blame you for it. Whenever she feels she wants to f*ck someone else and take a break, she will cite your past behavior as an excuse for her to do the same.
It's no good.
No matter how guilty you feel initially, it will fade away. You should feel better knowing your girl has probably lied to you about a few things too. Big deal, you weren't with her so drop it.
Also-- WHY are you getting back with your EX if SHE broke up with you? I hope you have a damn good explanation, because no good ever came of a guy running back to a girl who got rid of him.
Are you positive nothing at all good can come from it? I was thinking maybe she would get jealous and maybe want me a little more. I still want to be with her and she still wants to fvck me so it's possilbe we could get back together.
I didn't wear a condom because we didn't have one.
I didn't wear a condom because we didn't have one.
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
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The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
fourblueballs
Don Juan
what is wrong w/ a trip to the store to get some? Gas station ect.
Better to be safe the sorry. Seriously!
Better to be safe the sorry. Seriously!
WC2
Master Don Juan
I'm positive. The little satisfaction you may get out of gaining the upper hand for a short time will be belittled by the numerous amounts of fights it will cause. Plain and simple, she does not need to know about it. If she gets some hard evidence and finds out about it, then fine you can admit it.bud_2005 said:Are you positive nothing at all good can come from it? I was thinking maybe she would get jealous and maybe want me a little more. I still want to be with her and she still wants to fvck me so it's possilbe we could get back together.
I didn't wear a condom because we didn't have one.
I once thought I was real slick, telling me EX all the girls I got with. I even told her I f-ed one of her good friends. First she was extremely angry, then jealous for a short time, and then she was angry the rest of the time with me. It gives her leverage to start doing things you don't want her to do. Don't give it to her. You don't need to brag about pvssy, not cool.
Come on dude, if she told you she slept with a 6'2 Italian guy in the next room without a condom, would that turn you on?bud_2005 said:Are you positive nothing at all good can come from it?
"Hi ex, I hate to tell you this but I feel I should. I slept with another girl at Halloween and saw her naked and put it inside of her without a condom. However, I was thinking of you the entire time I was having sex with her and after we finished having sex, I really wanted to get back together with you."
"Wow, I feel so special, I think I'm falling in love with you all over again."
It seems you just want a clear conscience on this.