"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Does she like me?

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Does she like me?

Ok, this seems to be THE most common question on this forum nowdays and it's getting old. So i've come up with some responces to that and other pointless questions that should hopefully limit the amount of trash here.

DOES SHE LIKE ME?

No, she doesn't. Period. If you're worrying about whether she likes you or not, then you aren't man enough for her to like you. So when you feel the need to ask the forum whether or not she likes me, save us the trouble, and b*tch slap yourself.

Also if she's attracted to you or not isn't something out of your control, her attraction is something you have the power to actively create and not something that is just randomly choosen. Granted there will be chicks that will not like you no matter what but it's not outside the relm of possibility to make yourself attractive in a good 70% of all women solely based on your actions and body language.
(props to AB500)

SHOULD I DO _____?

No, you should have done that awhile ago. Way to **** up.

WHAT IF SHE DOESN'T LIKE ME?
Then she's smarter than you assumed. If you have to ask yourself this, then she'd have to have problems to like you. Grow a pair.

WHAT SHOULD I SAY IN THIS SITUATION?
Nothing, because more often than not that situation you described is far too specific to ever occur again. It's all about growing to a point where you can handle all situations no matter what. Avoid these specific situations and any advice about them because they're too rare most times.

HOW CAN I GET HER TO LIKE ME?
Shut the **** up. Grow a pair. And stop asking retarted questions. If you have to ask questions like these, then you aren't ready for her to like you anyways.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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shydude

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YOU should never ask yourself "does she like me"~ That just low!! Always go for the "SHOULD I like her??" Anyways great post :)
 

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Ironically when I read the title I was getting all ready to ***** out a troll.

Also if she's attracted to you or not isn't something out of your control, her attraction is something you have the power to actively create and not something that is just randomly choosen. Granted there will be chicks that will not like you no matter what but it's not outside the relm of possibility to make yourself attractive in a good 70% of all women solely based on your actions and body language. I've seen it happen before with chicks that didn't seem too attracted to me when I first met them. After a few hours with them I've had some eating out of the palm of my hand (literally?).
 

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I thought the title was pretty iron myself, pretty attention grabbing eh? lol

But yeah, that's a really good point AB, i think i'm gonna edit and through that one in there.
 

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shydude said:
YOU should never ask yourself "does she like me"~ That just low!! Always go for the "SHOULD I like her??" Anyways great post :)

WORDS TO LIVE BY...great response
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I assume every girl I talk to is attracted to me... It makes me very confident, and usually it comes to light to be true!
 

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Very true, there is some good advice here, i hope some more people get to read this, enough people on this forum could use this sorta advice...
 

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Hm, haven't heard, "does she like me?" in awhile, feels good!
 
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