"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Does she like me?

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Does she like me?

Ok, this seems to be THE most common question on this forum nowdays and it's getting old. So i've come up with some responces to that and other pointless questions that should hopefully limit the amount of trash here.

DOES SHE LIKE ME?

No, she doesn't. Period. If you're worrying about whether she likes you or not, then you aren't man enough for her to like you. So when you feel the need to ask the forum whether or not she likes me, save us the trouble, and b*tch slap yourself.

Also if she's attracted to you or not isn't something out of your control, her attraction is something you have the power to actively create and not something that is just randomly choosen. Granted there will be chicks that will not like you no matter what but it's not outside the relm of possibility to make yourself attractive in a good 70% of all women solely based on your actions and body language.
(props to AB500)

SHOULD I DO _____?

No, you should have done that awhile ago. Way to **** up.

WHAT IF SHE DOESN'T LIKE ME?
Then she's smarter than you assumed. If you have to ask yourself this, then she'd have to have problems to like you. Grow a pair.

WHAT SHOULD I SAY IN THIS SITUATION?
Nothing, because more often than not that situation you described is far too specific to ever occur again. It's all about growing to a point where you can handle all situations no matter what. Avoid these specific situations and any advice about them because they're too rare most times.

HOW CAN I GET HER TO LIKE ME?
Shut the **** up. Grow a pair. And stop asking retarted questions. If you have to ask questions like these, then you aren't ready for her to like you anyways.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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YOU should never ask yourself "does she like me"~ That just low!! Always go for the "SHOULD I like her??" Anyways great post :)
 

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Ironically when I read the title I was getting all ready to ***** out a troll.

Also if she's attracted to you or not isn't something out of your control, her attraction is something you have the power to actively create and not something that is just randomly choosen. Granted there will be chicks that will not like you no matter what but it's not outside the relm of possibility to make yourself attractive in a good 70% of all women solely based on your actions and body language. I've seen it happen before with chicks that didn't seem too attracted to me when I first met them. After a few hours with them I've had some eating out of the palm of my hand (literally?).
 

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I thought the title was pretty iron myself, pretty attention grabbing eh? lol

But yeah, that's a really good point AB, i think i'm gonna edit and through that one in there.
 

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shydude said:
YOU should never ask yourself "does she like me"~ That just low!! Always go for the "SHOULD I like her??" Anyways great post :)

WORDS TO LIVE BY...great response
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I assume every girl I talk to is attracted to me... It makes me very confident, and usually it comes to light to be true!
 

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Very true, there is some good advice here, i hope some more people get to read this, enough people on this forum could use this sorta advice...
 

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Hm, haven't heard, "does she like me?" in awhile, feels good!
 
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