"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ok in my french class theres this very hot chick who sits to the left of me. she sits so damn closs to me, closer to me than her male partner (in french, we have partners to practice 101 french with, but shes not my partner). i dont really know if she does like me or not. first of all, she's a very hot blonde preppie, and i'm a brown filipino skater kid. anyways, she always smiles at me (with the eyes smiling too) and we always talk about random ****. also, one time she applied some pink lipstick in front of me (even though it didnt look that good on her) and i read somewhere girls like to put emphasis on their lips to attract others.
ok so the main thing is, one time, like again she sat very closs to me, and then i had to present a french presentation facing the whole class, and i can see her like kicking her foot or shaking her leg and the foot is pointing at me the whole time(oh yea i read that somewhere too) and then i look at her and she has a nice smile, (but i dont remember if i smiled back) and then at the end of the presentation she said good job (she didn't even say good job to her partner).
and another thing i was holding a paper and she wanted to see it so she held it and her elbow was touchin my chest. i was happy.(lol) and one time the teacher told me to go to the front of the class along wit other kids and i didnt go yet, and then the girl im talkin about says "go now" and taps my lower back twice.
so, does she like?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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a brown filipino skater kid

that is all i need to know that no blond girl on this planet will be turned on by you.
 

ToZe

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lol, what!!!
:cry:
dont worry im not the typical filipino, i'm muscular, have a medium nose, and good looking, i look more hawaiian than filipino
 

nightcrawler

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ToZe said:
lol, what!!!
:cry:
dont worry im not the typical filipino, i'm muscular, have a medium nose, and good looking, i look more hawaiian than filipino
Sorry man but this is true. White girls simply don't like us brown folks.:down:

It looks like its indian for you/us.
 

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man
but in my school, some asians and mexicans are dating hot, white preppies
wait, aldaris, are you a girl btw
oh yeah and plus, i'm 5'9", and filipinos are averagely 5'4" and aldrais says she doesn't like short men
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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nightcrawler

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ToZe said:
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but in my school, some asians and mexicans are dating hot, white preppies
wait, aldaris, are you a girl btw
I must've not gotten the memo.

Last time I checked white girls dated alpha, tall latin men, very handsome black men or tall white males (or rather "average" white male...since whites are tall in the first place)

Most white girls settle for the average, 5'10"+ white guy though.

Dating outside your race is tough.
 

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oh yeah. but those kids i was talking about are probably just lucky, cuz its only some asians and mexicans who date them. and that asian kid played guitar in a band in front of the school (but he wasnt even good) so thats probably why he got the girl
but anyways, is my description good? does she like?
 

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Does she like you?Maybe yes Maybe No.We cant really be sure and neither can you for now.

Why not get her number and ask her out?Wouldnt that be the perfect way to find the answer to your question?Next time your beside her,try resting a part of your body on her.If shes comfortable,your in.
 

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Why don't you try talking to her so you can get a better idea.
 

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TWO things.

Firstly, your mind is going on overdrive to find out if this girl is into you or not. It's really not that difficult. If she's into you she'll let you know. Freud said sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. In this case she probably was just applying lipstick. Don't spend so much time analysing all this body language, what are you some kind of robot?

Secondly, the fact that you referred to yourself as "a brown filipino skater kid" inherently implies that you think of yourself as less than her, and that because she is white she's above you and so immediately you are pedestaling and she's going to be turned off by that.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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