"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Does she like me or not?

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Hi all, first post here, anyways..

I can't tell if Im on the train to friends or romance with this chick, and Im kinda neverous to ask for her number right now.

Weve talked a lot since the school year started always maintaining eye contact, shes laughed at quite a few things I have said. She has told me Im smart and it wasnt about school work. She remembers things I say and uses them to engage in conversation with me the following day(s). She points her body at me well talking, and twirls her hair occasionally.

Thats all I can think of for now, what do you guys think?

I think her remembering stuff Ive said and her trying to make conversation with me is a very good sign, especially with the heavy amounts of eye contact and smiling during it.

So should I move in and try and get the phone number or continue blabbing on about stupid **** and risk being just another "friend"

Thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cheiradawg

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ask her out
 
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Another afc has joined the team,

Read the bible dude, then ask her out.
 
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There's only one sure way to find out. Get a daisy flower and begin plucking the petals verbally alternating between "She likes me" and "She likes me not" until you run out of petals. Yup, proven method.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't even let one more day go by without asking her out. Just ask her if she'd like to hang out. I'm willing to bet your already in.

Do not wait on these type of things!! Don't let her think you a puss because you didn't ask!!

Just say: "Hey, I think your cool, lets go do ____".

That simple. Don't worry about her shooting you down, she won't.

And read the DJB if you haven't already.
 
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