"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Does she like me or not?

Decivious

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Hi all, first post here, anyways..

I can't tell if Im on the train to friends or romance with this chick, and Im kinda neverous to ask for her number right now.

Weve talked a lot since the school year started always maintaining eye contact, shes laughed at quite a few things I have said. She has told me Im smart and it wasnt about school work. She remembers things I say and uses them to engage in conversation with me the following day(s). She points her body at me well talking, and twirls her hair occasionally.

Thats all I can think of for now, what do you guys think?

I think her remembering stuff Ive said and her trying to make conversation with me is a very good sign, especially with the heavy amounts of eye contact and smiling during it.

So should I move in and try and get the phone number or continue blabbing on about stupid **** and risk being just another "friend"

Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Cheiradawg

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ask her out
 

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Another afc has joined the team,

Read the bible dude, then ask her out.
 

Life-Trainee

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There's only one sure way to find out. Get a daisy flower and begin plucking the petals verbally alternating between "She likes me" and "She likes me not" until you run out of petals. Yup, proven method.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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cactus3178

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Don't even let one more day go by without asking her out. Just ask her if she'd like to hang out. I'm willing to bet your already in.

Do not wait on these type of things!! Don't let her think you a puss because you didn't ask!!

Just say: "Hey, I think your cool, lets go do ____".

That simple. Don't worry about her shooting you down, she won't.

And read the DJB if you haven't already.
 
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