"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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does she like me or no?

crazysheep4

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Ok,

So there's this girl that I like, but I'm not sure if she likes me. I was told that she likes me on account of how we were "holding eachother" and hugging and whatnot, but I also happen to know that she is a flirty person.

Something I noticed a few days ago is that she hugs every guy she knows when they see eachother, but not me. She used to, but not anymore. I made the assumption that she maybe didn't like me, but then I thought that maybe she was playing hard to get or some stupid game like that.

Any help or suggestions would be greatly appreciated,
Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ok, well personally I don't think hugs mean anything. I hug ugly girls, but if she starts up kino or anything like that, then that might mean some interest level. You never can tell with the flirty ones. And it shouldn't really be her huggin you, but you huggin her. If she gives you any sign like hugging, then start the kino immediately and see what tyoe of response she gives u.
 

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girls are stupid. my situation:

girl and i were fine
she gets crush on guy
still likes me though
we still do stuff, for example she was stroking me like 3 days ago
now shes with that guy and im so ****ing confused


AAAHHH this is what turn men gay!
(not me, pure hetero)
 

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if she is no longer hugging you and thats what she does, it means her interest is fading. you said it yourself, shes a flirty person. If she hugs other guys, its because shes the kind of girl who likes lots of attention from lots of guys. You need to step up your game my man. Next time you see her, give her a big hug and ask her how she's doing, if she's going to that party on friday, etcetera. GET HER TALKING TO YOU! Then play aloof and use c & f. This will confuse her, and at the very least will get her thinking of you after you leave. At best she'll start to like you more.
 

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She is deeply in lustful highschool infatuation with you. She masturbates furiously to your eighth grade yearbook picture every night. Go get her, champ.





On a more serious note, read the DJ bible. At this stage, it'll help a lot more than we can.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I read your topic and ask myself wether you've made a typo.

I do believe you intended it to be something like "Do I like her or not?"
 
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