Here's what you MUST know about "healthy" relationships.
You must alwasy assert your personal Boundaries.
BUT...........
You must understand that a healthy realtionship does not involve you EXCLUSIVELY.
Know what that means?
You are getting involved with her friends, co workers, and family.
And you know what?
You have to get used to it.
You know why?
Because that's the mark of a healthy relationship.
You must HAVE AN OUTSIDE LIFE outside of the relationship.
You and she WILL BREAK UP sooner than later IF YOU DON"T.Sorry, guy. You have to accept it. It's part of being involved with women. They will talk to you about their life. And it involves the people they interact with.
Let me guess. She probably doesn't have any major, passionate hobbies. She probably wants to relate to you her experiences.
Remember, many wonmen "THINK out loud". In other words, they express their thoughts verbally, not internally. They often organize their thoughts from the outside in often. You are supposed to be their "rock", their support, their sounding board.
Get used to it, or stay single.
Show signs of jealousy and "I don't want to hear it", and you're putting a suprresion on her release of her emotions to you. You will supress her and repress her. She will feel you are not "Into HER".
You are denying her intimacy when you just want her to shut up about her life or problems.
And yes, they will include the people in her daily life.
Listen to her. Ask her more questions, be a man and be genuinely interested in your woman. You are her protector now, you are her "Rock" now, you are HER MAN, my friend. This is what we do , my friend.
BE HER MAN.