"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Does Ross Jerrfies' Speed Seduction really work?

prachanter

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He seems to switch back and forth during his simulated converations from a nerdy smartass to a gay hypnotist. Does that stuff really work?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jariel

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In short...no, it's a scam with a lot of clever and convincing theory behind it.

I got into this stuff heavily a while ago and freaked out a lot of girls. Basically, just look at his stuff and ask whether it would work on you? If not, then don't expect it to work on anyone else.

I would advise that you avoid this stuff like the plague.
 

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I disagree with Jariel wholeheartedly. The point is not whether Ross J's stuff works but whether or not YOU can make it work for you. There are plenty of gems to take away from Ross J.'s SS especially in the concept of how to talk more and engage them in very interesting conversation. You can also lay the foundation out subtly for what you want. He goes over valuable body language tips, speech, etc. Not everything by him works but give the guy a break he's been doing it since 1994 and a lot of his older material is crap but 2000-2007 he has put out some decent stuff that has worked for me out in the field tried and tested.
 

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It depends on your personality...I could NEVER make that work...and I'm not sold that anyone can.

If I were a woman...that **** would TOTALLY freak me out...and you know what...I'm betting they think the same thing
 

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You could never make what work? Ross has thousands of pieces of material floating around, if you are going to say you could never make it work I am guessing you really haven't read much of his work at all. Some of his "visualize the colorful energy ball" type stuff is far-fetched for many but there are many conversational skills he helps with that are quality imo.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Juan and only

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I'm with Jariel, it's absolute baloney. At the very least, don't ever buy anything of his.
 

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I say try it to see whether it fits.
 

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If you don't have super confidence, no method will work immediately. But as long as you don't give up approaching, any method will do you good. If any particular method will motivate you to approach more, adopt it. Not because it will get you more girls, cuz it won't! But because it motivates you to approach more.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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lyamdb said:
If you don't have super confidence, no method will work immediately. But as long as you don't give up approaching, any method will do you good. If any particular method will motivate you to approach more, adopt it. Not because it will get you more girls, cuz it won't! But because it motivates you to approach more.
I wouldn't say that any method would work for everyone. The methods are as unique as the guy implementing them. There are some guys in the forum (myself included) who I would never suggest using Gunwich just because it's not congruent with their personality.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The Juan and only

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In not so many words, it's about getting in touch with your masculinity, being overtly sexual, and pretty much cavemaning the whole pickup.

I agree with Francisco in that you need a style congruent with your personality. But I also tend to think that you shouldn't pay too much attention to how all these "gurus" live their lives. Be prepared to find the source of your own sexual power, acquire some maturity and experience, and you'll be fine.
 

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The techniques/systems are only as good/effective as the guy implementing them.
 
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