"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Does porn help or hurt?

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People here always say it doesn't, but when it comes right down to it, I think it helps us alot more than it hurts.

1. Girls are nothing - if you watch alot of it, you will think some things you see are disgusting and realize girls are nothing special - they are just like us except for the biological aspect.

2. You will get immune to it - again realize sex is no big deal and you won't be nervous talking a HB at anytime.

3. It helps with sex - I've read some articles where girls have said they hate their bf's watching porn, they can't compete and it makes them feel insecure. Eventually the couple breaks up because of the guys porn habit and the girl gets together with someone who doesn't watch it. And surprise -the sex sucks between them

4. It makes you want to get in shape - if you watch it, it will motivate you to get ripped like the guys on the screen because they get all the girls


I'm not saying lock yourself in your room and watch it 24-7. I just think it helps alot more than it hurts.

My first time getting some action, I re-enacted a Hollywood sex scene I have seen so many times and I swear, the girl was ready to marry me right there.

The girl was young and enthusiastic, so it might have helped me a little, but still.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't see anything wrong with watching porno. Just not all the time or going overboard. Some guys get addicted to it like you wouldn't believe. Then, when the porn isnt good they move to child porn and other sick sh!t. And when thats not enough they molest kids. Sounds crazy but it has happend to men who watched porn wwwaaayyy too much.

I usually just watch porn to look for new positions and try em' out.
 
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