"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Does porn help or hurt?

DonJuan11

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People here always say it doesn't, but when it comes right down to it, I think it helps us alot more than it hurts.

1. Girls are nothing - if you watch alot of it, you will think some things you see are disgusting and realize girls are nothing special - they are just like us except for the biological aspect.

2. You will get immune to it - again realize sex is no big deal and you won't be nervous talking a HB at anytime.

3. It helps with sex - I've read some articles where girls have said they hate their bf's watching porn, they can't compete and it makes them feel insecure. Eventually the couple breaks up because of the guys porn habit and the girl gets together with someone who doesn't watch it. And surprise -the sex sucks between them

4. It makes you want to get in shape - if you watch it, it will motivate you to get ripped like the guys on the screen because they get all the girls


I'm not saying lock yourself in your room and watch it 24-7. I just think it helps alot more than it hurts.

My first time getting some action, I re-enacted a Hollywood sex scene I have seen so many times and I swear, the girl was ready to marry me right there.

The girl was young and enthusiastic, so it might have helped me a little, but still.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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I don't see anything wrong with watching porno. Just not all the time or going overboard. Some guys get addicted to it like you wouldn't believe. Then, when the porn isnt good they move to child porn and other sick sh!t. And when thats not enough they molest kids. Sounds crazy but it has happend to men who watched porn wwwaaayyy too much.

I usually just watch porn to look for new positions and try em' out.
 
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