"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Does porn desensitize you?

diablo

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I'm curious as to whether or not looking at porn, over extended periods of time, can actually desensitize a person. More specifically, they have looked at it so much that they have more difficulty than normal in maintaining an erection during "the act". I've read a few articles by various models who have claimed this is actually starting to become more and more prevalent. (Read "Stuff" magazine issue 54 I believe). "It's scary when 23, 24 year olds have to be prescribed Viagra because they've been desensitized by porn." (Quoting from memory).

Cheers.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Slickster

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Hey.

LOL.

I have access to about 7 Porn channels 24/7. When I first had it there was alot of porn on at my house. However it gets boring real quick if you watch it too much. My girlfriend comes over and flicks it on every now and then. She marvels at the fact that I can leave the room let alone take my eyes off of the screen.

It does desensitize you a bit. However, awhile back I had a freak of a girlfriend who liked real kinky sex. Every girl I've been with since then has failed to measure up to her kinkiness. So in a way SHE desensitized me too. :)

Now the porn only comes on when I have buddies over to watch the game or play poker. They get a hold of the remote and you can't stop 'em. They all say "Man if I had this I wouldn't leave the house!"

I don't mind though. Its tough for them to concentrate on playing poker when the porn is on. If I'm getting low on chips I'll flick the porn on to distract them. Works like a charm. :)
 

Kendog

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ive have gigs and gigs on my pc, and im still a ***** that gets butterflys around girls
 
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