"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Does porn desensitize you?

diablo

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I'm curious as to whether or not looking at porn, over extended periods of time, can actually desensitize a person. More specifically, they have looked at it so much that they have more difficulty than normal in maintaining an erection during "the act". I've read a few articles by various models who have claimed this is actually starting to become more and more prevalent. (Read "Stuff" magazine issue 54 I believe). "It's scary when 23, 24 year olds have to be prescribed Viagra because they've been desensitized by porn." (Quoting from memory).

Cheers.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Slickster

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Hey.

LOL.

I have access to about 7 Porn channels 24/7. When I first had it there was alot of porn on at my house. However it gets boring real quick if you watch it too much. My girlfriend comes over and flicks it on every now and then. She marvels at the fact that I can leave the room let alone take my eyes off of the screen.

It does desensitize you a bit. However, awhile back I had a freak of a girlfriend who liked real kinky sex. Every girl I've been with since then has failed to measure up to her kinkiness. So in a way SHE desensitized me too. :)

Now the porn only comes on when I have buddies over to watch the game or play poker. They get a hold of the remote and you can't stop 'em. They all say "Man if I had this I wouldn't leave the house!"

I don't mind though. Its tough for them to concentrate on playing poker when the porn is on. If I'm getting low on chips I'll flick the porn on to distract them. Works like a charm. :)
 

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ive have gigs and gigs on my pc, and im still a ***** that gets butterflys around girls
 
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