RazorAzoth
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Is it necassary to have friends to be a DJ and pick up hot chicks left and right?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Does not having friends matter when it comes to being a DJ?
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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
WC2
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Uh no.
But friends are a necessary tool in one's life. Whether their temporary or long term, sometimes it's necessary to have some outside male perspective.
Friends may bring about more situations with women, but they in no way make or break your chances with women.
But friends are a necessary tool in one's life. Whether their temporary or long term, sometimes it's necessary to have some outside male perspective.
Friends may bring about more situations with women, but they in no way make or break your chances with women.
SharinganUser
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WC2 said:Uh no.
But friends are a necessary tool in one's life. Whether their temporary or long term, sometimes it's necessary to have some outside male perspective.
Friends may bring about more situations with women, but they in no way make or break your chances with women.
In my experience I would have to disagree. Guys who hang out with Dj's are more likely to get laid than guy's who hang arround with afc's. Having friends also shows that you have social skills/status. Friends are also nice to have arround especially when some jealous punk doesn't like that you can bang more chicks than him.
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Well in an earlier post I said it didn't but to some girls it does. I was just dating a girl and she used to diss on me a lot for not being "popular" meaning not having a big social group. Because she has a huge social circle and is a big party girl. So yeah she thought down on me bc of it and thought I wasn't cool enough for her lol. But this is rare, only usually happens if you date some stupid party girl.
hmm i can see pros and cons for either argument.
on the one hand, i don't have a huge social circle, but partly that's because i've found that most of the guys in my social circle are ****blocking jealous pricks. only like... 3 people i'd call actual friends.
but i can see where having alot of friends can give you more opportunities and connections, my 'friends' also represent the best connections i have.
most girls i meet don't know any of my friends, and i usually don't know any of theirs, my game deals more with 1on1s rather than a group meeting.
i don't see that it can be a bad thing though, a group of wingmen if you're good friends, or a chance to be a higher quality catch if they're petty chumps.
i don't think it matters, but i can't see it being detrimental.
on the one hand, i don't have a huge social circle, but partly that's because i've found that most of the guys in my social circle are ****blocking jealous pricks. only like... 3 people i'd call actual friends.
but i can see where having alot of friends can give you more opportunities and connections, my 'friends' also represent the best connections i have.
most girls i meet don't know any of my friends, and i usually don't know any of theirs, my game deals more with 1on1s rather than a group meeting.
i don't see that it can be a bad thing though, a group of wingmen if you're good friends, or a chance to be a higher quality catch if they're petty chumps.
i don't think it matters, but i can't see it being detrimental.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I'd have to say no, unless you're a guy who relies on social proof. However, a truly confident man can entertain himself and is his own party. So a DJ doesn't necessarily NEED friends. But still, you SHOULD stay social.
It does matter. For those who say social proof isn't neccessary, you guys are wrong.
Especially in high school and in university, social proof is pretty much everything. As you get into the real world, having a few but close "best friends" starts to matter. Nothing is essential to be a good DJ, but it can be a useful tool to have. Also, when you have a large amount of "non-AFC" friends, it allows you to do things and have a life... it keeps you busy! (Which can be important. Girls want guys who are constantly busy and are hard to get... it's kind of difficult to do that when you have no friends and are always available.)
Especially in high school and in university, social proof is pretty much everything. As you get into the real world, having a few but close "best friends" starts to matter. Nothing is essential to be a good DJ, but it can be a useful tool to have. Also, when you have a large amount of "non-AFC" friends, it allows you to do things and have a life... it keeps you busy! (Which can be important. Girls want guys who are constantly busy and are hard to get... it's kind of difficult to do that when you have no friends and are always available.)
It is not necessary to have friends to pick up hot chicks left and right. But if after the 10th date if she thinks you have no friends, then she'll wonder why and see it as a behavorial issue.RazorAzoth said:Is it necassary to have friends to be a DJ and pick up hot chicks left and right?
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I have a retarded huge social circle, just walking in with females every time I enter the bar has made big differences, it's even better that we go and sit at a table of newly aquired females and the cameras come out! Good times!
Man that sounds way better than going out alone and standing along the wall huh? Go have some fun before you die meng.
Man that sounds way better than going out alone and standing along the wall huh? Go have some fun before you die meng.
WC2
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Social status is an important aspect to attracting women. Do you need friends to bang women? The answer is still no.SharinganUser said:In my experience I would have to disagree. Guys who hang out with Dj's are more likely to get laid than guy's who hang arround with afc's. Having friends also shows that you have social skills/status. Friends are also nice to have arround especially when some jealous punk doesn't like that you can bang more chicks than him.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What the hell kind of question is this? Do you only want to make friends to get laid? thats pathetic.
If you don't have friends and are asking that question, good luck getting laid. You won't even be able to "fake it till ya make it".
If you don't have friends and are asking that question, good luck getting laid. You won't even be able to "fake it till ya make it".
synergy1 said:What the hell kind of question is this? Do you only want to make friends to get laid? thats pathetic.
If you don't have friends and are asking that question, good luck getting laid. You won't even be able to "fake it till ya make it".
Absolutely. If you dont have any friends (not by choice), then you probably have other problems to take care of before you even try bein a mack