RazorAzoth
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Is it necassary to have friends to be a DJ and pick up hot chicks left and right?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Does not having friends matter when it comes to being a DJ?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
WC2
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Uh no.
But friends are a necessary tool in one's life. Whether their temporary or long term, sometimes it's necessary to have some outside male perspective.
Friends may bring about more situations with women, but they in no way make or break your chances with women.
But friends are a necessary tool in one's life. Whether their temporary or long term, sometimes it's necessary to have some outside male perspective.
Friends may bring about more situations with women, but they in no way make or break your chances with women.
SharinganUser
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WC2 said:Uh no.
But friends are a necessary tool in one's life. Whether their temporary or long term, sometimes it's necessary to have some outside male perspective.
Friends may bring about more situations with women, but they in no way make or break your chances with women.
In my experience I would have to disagree. Guys who hang out with Dj's are more likely to get laid than guy's who hang arround with afc's. Having friends also shows that you have social skills/status. Friends are also nice to have arround especially when some jealous punk doesn't like that you can bang more chicks than him.
The Sperminator
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Well in an earlier post I said it didn't but to some girls it does. I was just dating a girl and she used to diss on me a lot for not being "popular" meaning not having a big social group. Because she has a huge social circle and is a big party girl. So yeah she thought down on me bc of it and thought I wasn't cool enough for her lol. But this is rare, only usually happens if you date some stupid party girl.
hmm i can see pros and cons for either argument.
on the one hand, i don't have a huge social circle, but partly that's because i've found that most of the guys in my social circle are ****blocking jealous pricks. only like... 3 people i'd call actual friends.
but i can see where having alot of friends can give you more opportunities and connections, my 'friends' also represent the best connections i have.
most girls i meet don't know any of my friends, and i usually don't know any of theirs, my game deals more with 1on1s rather than a group meeting.
i don't see that it can be a bad thing though, a group of wingmen if you're good friends, or a chance to be a higher quality catch if they're petty chumps.
i don't think it matters, but i can't see it being detrimental.
on the one hand, i don't have a huge social circle, but partly that's because i've found that most of the guys in my social circle are ****blocking jealous pricks. only like... 3 people i'd call actual friends.
but i can see where having alot of friends can give you more opportunities and connections, my 'friends' also represent the best connections i have.
most girls i meet don't know any of my friends, and i usually don't know any of theirs, my game deals more with 1on1s rather than a group meeting.
i don't see that it can be a bad thing though, a group of wingmen if you're good friends, or a chance to be a higher quality catch if they're petty chumps.
i don't think it matters, but i can't see it being detrimental.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'd have to say no, unless you're a guy who relies on social proof. However, a truly confident man can entertain himself and is his own party. So a DJ doesn't necessarily NEED friends. But still, you SHOULD stay social.
It does matter. For those who say social proof isn't neccessary, you guys are wrong.
Especially in high school and in university, social proof is pretty much everything. As you get into the real world, having a few but close "best friends" starts to matter. Nothing is essential to be a good DJ, but it can be a useful tool to have. Also, when you have a large amount of "non-AFC" friends, it allows you to do things and have a life... it keeps you busy! (Which can be important. Girls want guys who are constantly busy and are hard to get... it's kind of difficult to do that when you have no friends and are always available.)
Especially in high school and in university, social proof is pretty much everything. As you get into the real world, having a few but close "best friends" starts to matter. Nothing is essential to be a good DJ, but it can be a useful tool to have. Also, when you have a large amount of "non-AFC" friends, it allows you to do things and have a life... it keeps you busy! (Which can be important. Girls want guys who are constantly busy and are hard to get... it's kind of difficult to do that when you have no friends and are always available.)
It is not necessary to have friends to pick up hot chicks left and right. But if after the 10th date if she thinks you have no friends, then she'll wonder why and see it as a behavorial issue.RazorAzoth said:Is it necassary to have friends to be a DJ and pick up hot chicks left and right?
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I have a retarded huge social circle, just walking in with females every time I enter the bar has made big differences, it's even better that we go and sit at a table of newly aquired females and the cameras come out! Good times!
Man that sounds way better than going out alone and standing along the wall huh? Go have some fun before you die meng.
Man that sounds way better than going out alone and standing along the wall huh? Go have some fun before you die meng.
WC2
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Social status is an important aspect to attracting women. Do you need friends to bang women? The answer is still no.SharinganUser said:In my experience I would have to disagree. Guys who hang out with Dj's are more likely to get laid than guy's who hang arround with afc's. Having friends also shows that you have social skills/status. Friends are also nice to have arround especially when some jealous punk doesn't like that you can bang more chicks than him.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What the hell kind of question is this? Do you only want to make friends to get laid? thats pathetic.
If you don't have friends and are asking that question, good luck getting laid. You won't even be able to "fake it till ya make it".
If you don't have friends and are asking that question, good luck getting laid. You won't even be able to "fake it till ya make it".
synergy1 said:What the hell kind of question is this? Do you only want to make friends to get laid? thats pathetic.
If you don't have friends and are asking that question, good luck getting laid. You won't even be able to "fake it till ya make it".
Absolutely. If you dont have any friends (not by choice), then you probably have other problems to take care of before you even try bein a mack