"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Does not drinking hurt my game?

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mrRuckus

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This isn't black and white. It's not 100% sober or drunk.

A drink or two will loosen you up and probably will improve your game. The problem is that people don't have a drink or two. They have a drink or 8.

I am so damn friendly and funny and in a good mood when I have 2 or 3 drinks in me and the girls find it infectious. But i'm a damn fool and say and do some fairly stupid things that i should only be thinking instead of saying when I have any more. Losing a little bit of uptightness is good. Losing a lot of it is bad.

The "you should have a great game 100% sober" crowd lives in a theoretical world. Do what you have to do to have great game now. The more confidence you get from success with a couple drinks in you the easier being completely sober will be.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Be yerself and you attract like minded people. If you don't like drinking, smoking or making a fool out of yourself.. dont!

IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE GAME!!!

actually, there are good chances you may attract quailty women with integrity.. not just some loose tra.mps
 
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I think a good thing to do if you don't want to drink is to just offer to be the designated driver. That way, you have a respectable excuse and your friends will love you for it.
 
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Drinkin is also a GREAT way to have sex or at least fool around with a girl, becaues it take the responsbility off of her, which is #1 for a girl to not have sex is that she feels responsible for what happends, you need to take that away by giving her an excuse to do you, and get rid of possible consequences of sex for her and she will be all for you thn.
 
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