"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Does not drinking hurt my game?

mrRuckus

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This isn't black and white. It's not 100% sober or drunk.

A drink or two will loosen you up and probably will improve your game. The problem is that people don't have a drink or two. They have a drink or 8.

I am so damn friendly and funny and in a good mood when I have 2 or 3 drinks in me and the girls find it infectious. But i'm a damn fool and say and do some fairly stupid things that i should only be thinking instead of saying when I have any more. Losing a little bit of uptightness is good. Losing a lot of it is bad.

The "you should have a great game 100% sober" crowd lives in a theoretical world. Do what you have to do to have great game now. The more confidence you get from success with a couple drinks in you the easier being completely sober will be.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MANtle

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Be yerself and you attract like minded people. If you don't like drinking, smoking or making a fool out of yourself.. dont!

IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE GAME!!!

actually, there are good chances you may attract quailty women with integrity.. not just some loose tra.mps
 

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I think a good thing to do if you don't want to drink is to just offer to be the designated driver. That way, you have a respectable excuse and your friends will love you for it.
 
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Drinkin is also a GREAT way to have sex or at least fool around with a girl, becaues it take the responsbility off of her, which is #1 for a girl to not have sex is that she feels responsible for what happends, you need to take that away by giving her an excuse to do you, and get rid of possible consequences of sex for her and she will be all for you thn.
 
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