"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Does leaving her phone at her apartment mean anything?

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Went out with this girl. We were having drinks and having a good time, then she started talking pretty early on about her boyfriend and how she was looking forward to our "friendship". I can confirm the boyfriend is real and they've been together several years.

Anyway, once that happened I checked out mentally. I don't mess with taken chicks because it causes unnecessary stress in my life.

But one thing seemed weird to me. I asked her the time, but she said she didn't know because she left her phone in her apartment. That just seemed weird to me because, as we all know, chicks are glued to their phones. I had met up with her at her apartment, so she had plenty of time to make sure she had her phone on her.

I mean....was she just leaving it so she can give her boyfriend an "excuse" for not contacting him? Or am I just reading wayyyyy too much into this and just forget about it (this is probably the answer)?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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why do you care, she FZ'd you already. You're looking for excuses that she may potentially be losing interest in her BF.

But in answer to your question, in your current scenario. No it means nothing to you at all.
 
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Don't let your infatuation stray you from logic bud. She's hiding something...

It was probably in her purse turned off because her beta BF has no idea what's going on. If you paid for her anything during that date, next date is at your place and try to lay her. If she's not putting out drop that and move on. What I would do at least...
 
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