"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Does leaving her phone at her apartment mean anything?

teddy

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Went out with this girl. We were having drinks and having a good time, then she started talking pretty early on about her boyfriend and how she was looking forward to our "friendship". I can confirm the boyfriend is real and they've been together several years.

Anyway, once that happened I checked out mentally. I don't mess with taken chicks because it causes unnecessary stress in my life.

But one thing seemed weird to me. I asked her the time, but she said she didn't know because she left her phone in her apartment. That just seemed weird to me because, as we all know, chicks are glued to their phones. I had met up with her at her apartment, so she had plenty of time to make sure she had her phone on her.

I mean....was she just leaving it so she can give her boyfriend an "excuse" for not contacting him? Or am I just reading wayyyyy too much into this and just forget about it (this is probably the answer)?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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n52

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why do you care, she FZ'd you already. You're looking for excuses that she may potentially be losing interest in her BF.

But in answer to your question, in your current scenario. No it means nothing to you at all.
 

SgtSplacker

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Don't let your infatuation stray you from logic bud. She's hiding something...

It was probably in her purse turned off because her beta BF has no idea what's going on. If you paid for her anything during that date, next date is at your place and try to lay her. If she's not putting out drop that and move on. What I would do at least...
 
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