"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Does it really matter how many girls you've F*cked?

vagrant

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Seriously. What is everyone's purpose? Are you guys trying to find the right girl or just out there trying to beat your score? Honestly, I'm trying to find the right girl. I don't know what this thread is about. I guess I'm just curious. I heard some guys had f*cked more than 20 girls. Other more than a 100. Haven't you guys ever been with a really cool chick before? One that you just don't want to let go of? :confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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vagrant

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This is definitely now a know it all thread. I need some new perspectives here.
 

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I prefer LTRs myself. But:
If you're going to settle down with one girl, she has to be compatable with you. You can't just grab the first one off the rack and hope she fits, so you need to get to know different girls that interest you. When the right one comes along, you will know it (if you've had some experience).

As far as bedding multiple women, if you're a young guy and haven't had much experience, it's not a bad idea to get some. Because when the right girl comes along you want to be able to please her, and not be fumbling around awkwardly and not know what to do.
 

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I think its a good healthy goal to want to do multiple girls (maybe at the same time, ;) )

But if you havent had much experience, highschool sucked, go for it in your 20's. See whats out there. To me it'd be a shame to have so much wasted opportunity.

It'd be a shame to have regrets at 35, that you didnt do more when you were younger.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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tony-montana

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i hate when guys try to compare you on how many girls they fuked. that's just stupid. i don't think it matters at all. i have turned down sex many times. so i could of had sex plenty. but it's only been twice that i've done it. doesn't change the fact that i can get women.
 

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It matters if you're playing the HWDWTMRWL game: He Who Dies With The Most Roots Wins Life.

Do whatever that makes you happy. It's your life. Fvck what everyone else thinks.

Haven't you guys ever been with a really cool chick before? One that you just don't want to let go of?
Yes, but life has its own sense of humour and doesn't always let me have what I want.
 

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vagrant said:
Seriously. What is everyone's purpose? Are you guys trying to find the right girl or just out there trying to beat your score? Honestly, I'm trying to find the right girl. I don't know what this thread is about. I guess I'm just curious. I heard some guys had f*cked more than 20 girls. Other more than a 100. Haven't you guys ever been with a really cool chick before? One that you just don't want to let go of? :confused:
It doesn't matter how many girls you sleep with.

But having a high ratio of experiance can give the guy a wealth of experiance of the female mating dynamic and see what really makes them tick.

For example a guy married for 65 years to his first girl will probably go 'Bah women we will never understand them' - whilst the guy he is saying this to has banged over a 100 and simply shrugs.

But there are guys who study the mating dynamic who have had little partners and it gives them a wealth of information.

Usually also the guys who have small lay tally's are more often then not guys who will put up with poor behaviour from a women or make excuses for said behaviour since there pool of knowledges is limited.

On the other hand a guy with loads of experiance could probably spot a red flag a mile away.
 

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because my sex drive is through the roof. when i see an attractive girl i want to bone her, no questions asked. and i dont mind. it will probably go on like this until i either get tired of it or until i find a really cool girl to date. right now i got 3 plates developing
 

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Statistics, son. The higher the sample size, the closer you'd get to the true mean.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yea it matters to me because I enjoy sleeping with women. I enjoy eating *****. I enjoy seeing phat asses up close and in person! I enjoy sampling a variety of women, so yes it matters. It's not about proving I can get women, it's about getting the gotten girls ***** and enjoying that time.
 
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