"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Does it really matter how many girls you've F*cked?

vagrant

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Seriously. What is everyone's purpose? Are you guys trying to find the right girl or just out there trying to beat your score? Honestly, I'm trying to find the right girl. I don't know what this thread is about. I guess I'm just curious. I heard some guys had f*cked more than 20 girls. Other more than a 100. Haven't you guys ever been with a really cool chick before? One that you just don't want to let go of? :confused:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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vagrant

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This is definitely now a know it all thread. I need some new perspectives here.
 

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I prefer LTRs myself. But:
If you're going to settle down with one girl, she has to be compatable with you. You can't just grab the first one off the rack and hope she fits, so you need to get to know different girls that interest you. When the right one comes along, you will know it (if you've had some experience).

As far as bedding multiple women, if you're a young guy and haven't had much experience, it's not a bad idea to get some. Because when the right girl comes along you want to be able to please her, and not be fumbling around awkwardly and not know what to do.
 

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I think its a good healthy goal to want to do multiple girls (maybe at the same time, ;) )

But if you havent had much experience, highschool sucked, go for it in your 20's. See whats out there. To me it'd be a shame to have so much wasted opportunity.

It'd be a shame to have regrets at 35, that you didnt do more when you were younger.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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tony-montana

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i hate when guys try to compare you on how many girls they fuked. that's just stupid. i don't think it matters at all. i have turned down sex many times. so i could of had sex plenty. but it's only been twice that i've done it. doesn't change the fact that i can get women.
 

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It matters if you're playing the HWDWTMRWL game: He Who Dies With The Most Roots Wins Life.

Do whatever that makes you happy. It's your life. Fvck what everyone else thinks.

Haven't you guys ever been with a really cool chick before? One that you just don't want to let go of?
Yes, but life has its own sense of humour and doesn't always let me have what I want.
 

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vagrant said:
Seriously. What is everyone's purpose? Are you guys trying to find the right girl or just out there trying to beat your score? Honestly, I'm trying to find the right girl. I don't know what this thread is about. I guess I'm just curious. I heard some guys had f*cked more than 20 girls. Other more than a 100. Haven't you guys ever been with a really cool chick before? One that you just don't want to let go of? :confused:
It doesn't matter how many girls you sleep with.

But having a high ratio of experiance can give the guy a wealth of experiance of the female mating dynamic and see what really makes them tick.

For example a guy married for 65 years to his first girl will probably go 'Bah women we will never understand them' - whilst the guy he is saying this to has banged over a 100 and simply shrugs.

But there are guys who study the mating dynamic who have had little partners and it gives them a wealth of information.

Usually also the guys who have small lay tally's are more often then not guys who will put up with poor behaviour from a women or make excuses for said behaviour since there pool of knowledges is limited.

On the other hand a guy with loads of experiance could probably spot a red flag a mile away.
 

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because my sex drive is through the roof. when i see an attractive girl i want to bone her, no questions asked. and i dont mind. it will probably go on like this until i either get tired of it or until i find a really cool girl to date. right now i got 3 plates developing
 

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Statistics, son. The higher the sample size, the closer you'd get to the true mean.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yea it matters to me because I enjoy sleeping with women. I enjoy eating *****. I enjoy seeing phat asses up close and in person! I enjoy sampling a variety of women, so yes it matters. It's not about proving I can get women, it's about getting the gotten girls ***** and enjoying that time.
 
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