"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Does it matter how quickly she was willing to slept with you versus other guys she's dated or is the fact that you're having sex with her now the most important thing?

It bothered me when I found out that my gf slept with the last guy she dated quicker than me. True, I was long distance from her and she had some trust issues with me since she thought I was a player and she had kind of been lied to by the other guy, but it still made me feel ****ty to know that info.

Should I really care about this?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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actually its better that she slept with him faster and not you.

partly because of respect....my girl told me..she wanted to take it slow with me because she didnt want me to not repsect her. Once I told her that I respect her regardless it was on!

that could be the reason.
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
actually its better that she slept with him faster and not you.

partly because of respect....my girl told me..she wanted to take it slow with me because she didnt want me to not repsect her. Once I told her that I respect her regardless it was on!

that could be the reason.
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Well, it's not really "better". She simply found the other guy's advances harder to resist. Or she was hornier for him or whatever. Of course she could be just trying a new approach with you. In the end it doesn't really matter. The thing that's most disturbing is that she would volunteer that information to you. Telling your new bf/gf about how fast you slept with the last one shows a lack of respect, and a lack of maturity.
 
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Originally posted by fasttrack
Does it matter how quickly she was willing to slept with you versus other guys she's dated or is the fact that you're having sex with her now the most important thing?

It bothered me when I found out that my gf slept with the last guy she dated quicker than me. True, I was long distance from her and she had some trust issues with me since she thought I was a player and she had kind of been lied to by the other guy, but it still made me feel ****ty to know that info.

Should I really care about this?

Fast
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I've loved hard twice. I waited a long time with both of them. (one I'm still waiting)
 
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