"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Does it matter how quickly she slept with you?

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fasttrack

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Does it matter how quickly she was willing to slept with you versus other guys she's dated or is the fact that you're having sex with her now the most important thing?

It bothered me when I found out that my gf slept with the last guy she dated quicker than me. True, I was long distance from her and she had some trust issues with me since she thought I was a player and she had kind of been lied to by the other guy, but it still made me feel ****ty to know that info.

Should I really care about this?

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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actually its better that she slept with him faster and not you.

partly because of respect....my girl told me..she wanted to take it slow with me because she didnt want me to not repsect her. Once I told her that I respect her regardless it was on!

that could be the reason.
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
actually its better that she slept with him faster and not you.

partly because of respect....my girl told me..she wanted to take it slow with me because she didnt want me to not repsect her. Once I told her that I respect her regardless it was on!

that could be the reason.
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Well, it's not really "better". She simply found the other guy's advances harder to resist. Or she was hornier for him or whatever. Of course she could be just trying a new approach with you. In the end it doesn't really matter. The thing that's most disturbing is that she would volunteer that information to you. Telling your new bf/gf about how fast you slept with the last one shows a lack of respect, and a lack of maturity.
 
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Originally posted by fasttrack
Does it matter how quickly she was willing to slept with you versus other guys she's dated or is the fact that you're having sex with her now the most important thing?

It bothered me when I found out that my gf slept with the last guy she dated quicker than me. True, I was long distance from her and she had some trust issues with me since she thought I was a player and she had kind of been lied to by the other guy, but it still made me feel ****ty to know that info.

Should I really care about this?

Fast
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I've loved hard twice. I waited a long time with both of them. (one I'm still waiting)
 
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