"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Does it matter how quickly she slept with you?

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Does it matter how quickly she was willing to slept with you versus other guys she's dated or is the fact that you're having sex with her now the most important thing?

It bothered me when I found out that my gf slept with the last guy she dated quicker than me. True, I was long distance from her and she had some trust issues with me since she thought I was a player and she had kind of been lied to by the other guy, but it still made me feel ****ty to know that info.

Should I really care about this?

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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actually its better that she slept with him faster and not you.

partly because of respect....my girl told me..she wanted to take it slow with me because she didnt want me to not repsect her. Once I told her that I respect her regardless it was on!

that could be the reason.
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
actually its better that she slept with him faster and not you.

partly because of respect....my girl told me..she wanted to take it slow with me because she didnt want me to not repsect her. Once I told her that I respect her regardless it was on!

that could be the reason.
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Well, it's not really "better". She simply found the other guy's advances harder to resist. Or she was hornier for him or whatever. Of course she could be just trying a new approach with you. In the end it doesn't really matter. The thing that's most disturbing is that she would volunteer that information to you. Telling your new bf/gf about how fast you slept with the last one shows a lack of respect, and a lack of maturity.
 
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Originally posted by fasttrack
Does it matter how quickly she was willing to slept with you versus other guys she's dated or is the fact that you're having sex with her now the most important thing?

It bothered me when I found out that my gf slept with the last guy she dated quicker than me. True, I was long distance from her and she had some trust issues with me since she thought I was a player and she had kind of been lied to by the other guy, but it still made me feel ****ty to know that info.

Should I really care about this?

Fast
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I've loved hard twice. I waited a long time with both of them. (one I'm still waiting)
 
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