"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Does it happens to you too that once you know a girl..

Who Dares Win

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..has been fvcked from someone you know or from your social circle you no longer want her?

The question is general and here an example following.

So there is this girl, no way girlfriend material, you see instinctively she is a ho with the tramp stamps as well in all her body, yet quite doable in terms or look and provocative factor.

So she was flirting with me today and asked a common friend if she belongs to someone and that I wouldnt mind to bang her, he said she is free and also easy to do since one of our friends already banged her.

Then I told him that I would have passed in that case since such stuff turns me off.

Not sure if its a natural instinct coming from not messing up in your tribe or simple ego of not taking left overs, what is your opinion?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Who Dares Win said:
Not sure if its a natural instinct coming from not messing up in your tribe or simple ego of not taking left overs, what is your opinion?
It's instinctual to want to increase the odds of your sperm to survive. When you find out a girl is banging or has banged someone else you know, then you run the risk of raising that guy's child instead of yours. So instinct tends to put you off of her.

Another thing I've noticed that has been a turnoff lately is when a girl is too thick with orbiters. I know many here would say just go through them and bang her, but if she's too close with them I find it a turn off. I'm not on the market anyway.
 

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Put it in her ass, tell her you are a christian and saving your virginity for god.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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zekko said:
It's instinctual to want to increase the odds of your sperm to survive. When you find out a girl is banging or has banged someone else you know, then you run the risk of raising that guy's child instead of yours. So instinct tends to put you off of her.

Another thing I've noticed that has been a turnoff lately is when a girl is too thick with orbiters. I know many here would say just go through them and bang her, but if she's too close with them I find it a turn off. I'm not on the market anyway.
Agree on both, its not a decision to day "just bang her" as many here suggests, there is some instinct which hijack your conscious decision.

Which is either a self preservation one which makes you not to mess up with taken women (not updated to current era) or either protect your rank by not take someone else leftovers.

Regarding the orbiter one also, probably we evolved to consider attention wh0res unfit to committment thus unworth to have our time and resourches and again an other instinct coming from when society was different.

Then I start to believe also something else which someone could consider "insecurity", nowadays girls make comparison and voice opinions on guys performances either based on reality or her mood, now since all the actors involved are in the same social circle this could really complicate your life.
 
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