"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Does it happens to you too that once you know a girl..

Who Dares Win

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..has been fvcked from someone you know or from your social circle you no longer want her?

The question is general and here an example following.

So there is this girl, no way girlfriend material, you see instinctively she is a ho with the tramp stamps as well in all her body, yet quite doable in terms or look and provocative factor.

So she was flirting with me today and asked a common friend if she belongs to someone and that I wouldnt mind to bang her, he said she is free and also easy to do since one of our friends already banged her.

Then I told him that I would have passed in that case since such stuff turns me off.

Not sure if its a natural instinct coming from not messing up in your tribe or simple ego of not taking left overs, what is your opinion?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Who Dares Win said:
Not sure if its a natural instinct coming from not messing up in your tribe or simple ego of not taking left overs, what is your opinion?
It's instinctual to want to increase the odds of your sperm to survive. When you find out a girl is banging or has banged someone else you know, then you run the risk of raising that guy's child instead of yours. So instinct tends to put you off of her.

Another thing I've noticed that has been a turnoff lately is when a girl is too thick with orbiters. I know many here would say just go through them and bang her, but if she's too close with them I find it a turn off. I'm not on the market anyway.
 

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Put it in her ass, tell her you are a christian and saving your virginity for god.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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zekko said:
It's instinctual to want to increase the odds of your sperm to survive. When you find out a girl is banging or has banged someone else you know, then you run the risk of raising that guy's child instead of yours. So instinct tends to put you off of her.

Another thing I've noticed that has been a turnoff lately is when a girl is too thick with orbiters. I know many here would say just go through them and bang her, but if she's too close with them I find it a turn off. I'm not on the market anyway.
Agree on both, its not a decision to day "just bang her" as many here suggests, there is some instinct which hijack your conscious decision.

Which is either a self preservation one which makes you not to mess up with taken women (not updated to current era) or either protect your rank by not take someone else leftovers.

Regarding the orbiter one also, probably we evolved to consider attention wh0res unfit to committment thus unworth to have our time and resourches and again an other instinct coming from when society was different.

Then I start to believe also something else which someone could consider "insecurity", nowadays girls make comparison and voice opinions on guys performances either based on reality or her mood, now since all the actors involved are in the same social circle this could really complicate your life.
 
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