"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Does it ever occur to you that women aren't the answer?

Mr Wright

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What happens when you finally get 1000 lays? Or a super hot girlfriend?

Let's face it, it wont be enough, you'll still feel just as empty and just as lonely unless you get the rest of your life sorted.

Girls aren't the problem. Get everything else in order and girls will come to you.

Enjoy your life :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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evan12

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men to feel fulfilled must have offspring( children )
 

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Your purpose is never to be with a person. Your purpose is to do something related to your natural talent and passion. Two people must coexist while seeking and fulfilling their own purposes. That is where the difficulty in long term compatibility lies.
 

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When you're 19, you're prone to bullsh1t philosophical thinking. We've all been there.

If you're looking to get laid, women is the answer.

If you're looking for an answer, what is the question?
 

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yeah, there not the answer. i found out the hard way.

it's the same for. Gambling drinking and drugs.

though now i'm trying eastern teaching. ( power of now) lets see if that works.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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