"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Does it ever occur to you that women aren't the answer?

Mr Wright

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What happens when you finally get 1000 lays? Or a super hot girlfriend?

Let's face it, it wont be enough, you'll still feel just as empty and just as lonely unless you get the rest of your life sorted.

Girls aren't the problem. Get everything else in order and girls will come to you.

Enjoy your life :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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men to feel fulfilled must have offspring( children )
 

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Your purpose is never to be with a person. Your purpose is to do something related to your natural talent and passion. Two people must coexist while seeking and fulfilling their own purposes. That is where the difficulty in long term compatibility lies.
 

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When you're 19, you're prone to bullsh1t philosophical thinking. We've all been there.

If you're looking to get laid, women is the answer.

If you're looking for an answer, what is the question?
 

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yeah, there not the answer. i found out the hard way.

it's the same for. Gambling drinking and drugs.

though now i'm trying eastern teaching. ( power of now) lets see if that works.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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