"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Does it ever occur to you that women aren't the answer?

Mr Wright

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What happens when you finally get 1000 lays? Or a super hot girlfriend?

Let's face it, it wont be enough, you'll still feel just as empty and just as lonely unless you get the rest of your life sorted.

Girls aren't the problem. Get everything else in order and girls will come to you.

Enjoy your life :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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evan12

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men to feel fulfilled must have offspring( children )
 

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Your purpose is never to be with a person. Your purpose is to do something related to your natural talent and passion. Two people must coexist while seeking and fulfilling their own purposes. That is where the difficulty in long term compatibility lies.
 

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When you're 19, you're prone to bullsh1t philosophical thinking. We've all been there.

If you're looking to get laid, women is the answer.

If you're looking for an answer, what is the question?
 

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yeah, there not the answer. i found out the hard way.

it's the same for. Gambling drinking and drugs.

though now i'm trying eastern teaching. ( power of now) lets see if that works.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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