"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Does it bother you when people stare at you when you talking to a chick?

DonJoseCantosie

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To the topic creator, consider it a good thing they are looking at u. Why? Because

1) If guys look...most don't got the balls...so its interesting to them that its actually being done.
2) If girls look...its definitely a good thing! They want it to be done to them :-D.
3) People will look cuz its more interesting than what they normally do.

So its a win-win. If u get rejected, don't mind feeling embarrased...atleast u had the balls to go for what u want. Thats a much more long term feeling than something short term(u feeling embarrased in front of people). Believe me after the first 30 seconds, people go back to their daily routine..and don't care about it anymore.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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silverwolfalpha

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yea

face it. You know as a guy that its in our genes to look. Just make sure its a look, not a look stare as in "i am looking at her hot ass and nice boobs right in front of you, wat u going to do". IF its a look, let it go, because fighting the guy will just make your girl think you are uneducated junky. If they stare to start on you, just give him a look to challenge. Most guys WILL look away.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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The Knew Guy said:
Hmm.

I have this weird tendency to completely zone in on the girl. I mean when I'm talking to a girl I'm attracted to a bulldozer can drive by and I won't notice (unless she does and breaks eye contact). I'm so focused on watching her body language (eye contact, facial expressions especially), and how she's reacting to my words that I don't even notice anyone else is in the room.
Sounds like doing that would be more beneficial than paying more attention to what other people are doing.
 

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nando said:
Cuz I see their big heads looking at me like am a tv show and it bothers me man!:eek:
I'm in television! I make it as if I'm on the set of Fresh Prince! I act like Will and not use any cheap pick up lines like he did!

It makes me feel more comfy!

The point is, go with the flow. THAT'S the best advice you'll ever get on this one.
 
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