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Originally posted by penkitten
the only thing it has changed with me is, NOW i must bite a pillow so i am not so loud....
gotta remember not to wake those kiddos
Do you mean to have ANOTHER kid? Or if I could go back and change my life, would I still choose to have kids?Originally posted by aequitas
If you were to make the choice of having kids AGAIN, would you still have kids? If so, then why?
Back when I was a married "nice guy" I realized that if she is treated well, most good women will give their man more than what he gives her.Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
I like what FRANSISCO said about keeping a husband happy in order to motivate him to help her with the child rearing responsibillities, it makes sense. But it doesn't circumvent a declining spontenaity in sex due to those same responsibilities. As a rule most guy's will take sex when they can get it, but we know when our partner is into it for its own sake and when it's percieved as a chore or a duty on any given occasion. And it's that interpretation that's frustrating for guys - until marriage and before kids we become used to having our partner be into it for the sole enjoyment of it, but after marriage and a kids we have to adjust to sex under conditionalities.