"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Does getting a girl's email address your interested in seem lame?

crackers444

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Hey, I am wondering if getting a girl's email address is seen as lame by the girl your getting email address from. I had gotten a girl's email address that was in my class at University, she had a surprised look on her face when asked. We had chatted and developed a rapport in class, she seemed to like what I had to say(I participated in class a lot), she did sometimes too. She also asked for my notes once. I saw her on bus a couple times. By end of school year, she happened to be on same bus as me. I sat next to her, she didn't say much at all and I was doing the chatting for most part. I was going to ask her out, however figured she was busy and didn't know if she had a bf. I later found out on Hi5, that her staus was that she was comitted and found her on facebook, she didn't accept friend request! It sucks how things turn out! It seems the girls I like aren't interested or have bf's or live away! *Sigh*
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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gray_fox_9

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E-mail seems like such an easy way out. Grab your balls and get the phone number and call her instead. Much better to have an actual conversation with a girl than just typing words on a computer.

Cheers
 

Abbott

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Why not the phone number? It can't be any harder. I see no point in E-mail unless you want or need to exchange files for whatever reason.
 
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