Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Does 'game' promote sociopathic tendencies?

sylvester the cat

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with all this talk of bpd's etc I found myself asking this question. I know many a player whom might pass as sociopaths. These men are adept in business and are very successful on the surface. Nice clothes, car, house etc but inside they are empty. Heartless and soulless. I know certain members here come across that way (mentioning no names *cough Danger * cough Guru* cough). All logic and no heart. What do you think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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El Payaso

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Not necessarily promotes so much as it draws out those tendencies.
 

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All the traits BPD chicks have are basically the same things DJs are encouraged to do -- spin plates (orbiters), fluctuate emotions, manipulate, regard partner as expendable...
 

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I think the game promotes sociopathic tendencies. Not because it attracts women, but because it makes it easier to do what needs to be done (to be a player).

Once a guy is freed from the burden of morality and caring about the other person, he can use, manipulate, and lie to them as needed without any bothersome pangs of conscience.
 

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i think being a sociopath or acting like one is considered having game
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It depends on how much of one they are. High-functioning vs low-functioning for example. Low-functiong sociopaths are good with one on one encounters. They tend to be more manipulative. However, they lie a lot about themselves in order to help their chances with the other person. That is why they are not so great with a group of people. High-functioning sociopaths are more charismatic. They are better at moving the masses, but will not let you get close to them.

The thing is, every person has the ability to become one. It usually happens when one experiences severe emotional trauma or repeated emotional trauma. Loss of empathy is one key factor. However, many sociopaths (more so the ones who become that way later on in life due to emotional trauma) are simply able to turn empathy on and off like a switch. Whichever is more beneficial to them.
 

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Malcontent said:
All the traits BPD chicks have are basically the same things DJs are encouraged to do -- spin plates (orbiters), fluctuate emotions, manipulate, regard partner as expendable...
This is true. The pathology of men is sociopathy, while the pathology of women is borderline personality disorder. The two are essentially very similar, yet also different at the same time.

A BPD is the equivalent of a male sociopath.
 
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