"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Does Fashion/Wardrobe matter?

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OldbutSTRONG

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So many threads about physical looks but I don't think I've ever seen one about fashion/wardrobe specifically.

Simply put, if a man has great game, does it matter what he wears? Can a great DJ pull women wearing clothes from the 90's or older? With a bad hairstyle? Poor hygiene? Tattered clothing? You get my idea.

This is not about me, nor am I ignoring what else is important. Just focusing how important or non-important clothing/style is for attracting women.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you have great game, you can pretty much wear whatever you want (within reason). I've definitely gone bar hopping in gym shorts and t-shirts before. And it's worked out well. It makes you stand out from all the over-dressed, popped-collar d-bags.

Good game will get you noticed if your style is bad. And good style will get you noticed if you don't have great. So, in the end...it's best to just combine the two.
 
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