"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Does Fashion/Wardrobe matter?

OldbutSTRONG

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So many threads about physical looks but I don't think I've ever seen one about fashion/wardrobe specifically.

Simply put, if a man has great game, does it matter what he wears? Can a great DJ pull women wearing clothes from the 90's or older? With a bad hairstyle? Poor hygiene? Tattered clothing? You get my idea.

This is not about me, nor am I ignoring what else is important. Just focusing how important or non-important clothing/style is for attracting women.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Iceberg

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If you have great game, you can pretty much wear whatever you want (within reason). I've definitely gone bar hopping in gym shorts and t-shirts before. And it's worked out well. It makes you stand out from all the over-dressed, popped-collar d-bags.

Good game will get you noticed if your style is bad. And good style will get you noticed if you don't have great. So, in the end...it's best to just combine the two.
 
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