"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Does Fashion/Wardrobe matter?

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OldbutSTRONG

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So many threads about physical looks but I don't think I've ever seen one about fashion/wardrobe specifically.

Simply put, if a man has great game, does it matter what he wears? Can a great DJ pull women wearing clothes from the 90's or older? With a bad hairstyle? Poor hygiene? Tattered clothing? You get my idea.

This is not about me, nor am I ignoring what else is important. Just focusing how important or non-important clothing/style is for attracting women.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you have great game, you can pretty much wear whatever you want (within reason). I've definitely gone bar hopping in gym shorts and t-shirts before. And it's worked out well. It makes you stand out from all the over-dressed, popped-collar d-bags.

Good game will get you noticed if your style is bad. And good style will get you noticed if you don't have great. So, in the end...it's best to just combine the two.
 
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