"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Does Facebook game just not work on girls you don't know that well?

ElStud

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Well, I've been researching Facebook game and I've tried a few openers. These were mainly on chicks I knew in High School, but haven't talked to since... Stuff like...

"You're into Anime? That's kinda dorky, but I can live with it I guess".

Just something non-threatening that doesn't kiss their ass, nor shows interest.

It's based off a formula for openers I found in this one Facebook guide or something.

However, for me, it hasn't worked. I've tried that type of opener on atleast 4 chicks and I just don't end up getting a response in the end.

So can Facebook game actually work if I don't already know her that well?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Duracell_Bunny

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Same here, had nothing with chicks that I have known for a while.

Most of my success came when I met chick out in the real world for the first time who know the people I'm with. They sent a friend request to me but I didn't accept - I responded by sending a quick private message and got the date after a 2/3 message exchanges. This worked on more than one occasion.

Another good one is if they are in your friends list, is to ignore them when they chat to you online, only to reply a couple of days later by private message keeping it short and leaving 2/3 days before responding - online chat is a fail.

The only use of FB is a second chance to get a date with women you have interacted with in the field, but for whatever reason didn't get their number.
 

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Duracell_Bunny said:
Same here, had nothing with chicks that I have known for a while.

Most of my success came when I met chick out in the real world for the first time who know the people I'm with. They sent a friend request to me but I didn't accept - I responded by sending a quick private message and got the date after a 2/3 message exchanges. This worked on more than one occasion.

Another good one is if they are in your friends list, is to ignore them when they chat to you online, only to reply a couple of days later by private message keeping it short and leaving 2/3 days before responding - online chat is a fail.

The only use of FB is a second chance to get a date with women you have interacted with in the field, but for whatever reason didn't get their number.
Yeah, I've noticed that too. Back when I used to go to college, I would sometimes ask a chick for her Facebook. Then she would accept it, and sometimes talk to me... But lately, being stuck at home with no car, I've had to resort to meeting chicks I haven't really seen in person for a while... These are all chicks on my friend lists that I knew from HS BTW.

I guess, it really doesn't work if you never knew the chick that well.
 

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I met my GF on Facebook. I would see her post through a common friends posts. I would always comment something funny and she would always post back and fourth. After a particularly heavy day of hilarious posting I friended her and she accepted. Now she could see me post where I was going and where I had been checking into. Mind you this girl is absolutely gorgeous so I did put a bit of time and energy into gaming her, and giving her good "facebook".. lol. Then I posted some DHV pics of be doing cool stuff like diving, hanging with friends. I asked her out in private message shortly after, she denied. I didnt sweat it at all, just kept gaming her like before. Then she posted on one of my "going somewhere" posts saying that was a cool spot and that she used to go there when she lived in the area. So I invited her again and she came with two bodyguards... cute ones. We hit it off and have been inseparable ever since.
 

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"I've had a crush on you for years."

ElStud said:
Well, I've been researching Facebook game and I've tried a few openers. These were mainly on chicks I knew in High School, but haven't talked to since... Stuff like...

"You're into Anime? That's kinda dorky, but I can live with it I guess".

Just something non-threatening that doesn't kiss their ass, nor shows interest.

It's based off a formula for openers I found in this one Facebook guide or something.

However, for me, it hasn't worked. I've tried that type of opener on atleast 4 chicks and I just don't end up getting a response in the end.

So can Facebook game actually work if I don't already know her that well?

I just saved your virginity OP.

If you don't try this you are a phaggot
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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