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Does Facebook game just not work on girls you don't know that well?

ElStud

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Well, I've been researching Facebook game and I've tried a few openers. These were mainly on chicks I knew in High School, but haven't talked to since... Stuff like...

"You're into Anime? That's kinda dorky, but I can live with it I guess".

Just something non-threatening that doesn't kiss their ass, nor shows interest.

It's based off a formula for openers I found in this one Facebook guide or something.

However, for me, it hasn't worked. I've tried that type of opener on atleast 4 chicks and I just don't end up getting a response in the end.

So can Facebook game actually work if I don't already know her that well?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Same here, had nothing with chicks that I have known for a while.

Most of my success came when I met chick out in the real world for the first time who know the people I'm with. They sent a friend request to me but I didn't accept - I responded by sending a quick private message and got the date after a 2/3 message exchanges. This worked on more than one occasion.

Another good one is if they are in your friends list, is to ignore them when they chat to you online, only to reply a couple of days later by private message keeping it short and leaving 2/3 days before responding - online chat is a fail.

The only use of FB is a second chance to get a date with women you have interacted with in the field, but for whatever reason didn't get their number.
 

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Duracell_Bunny said:
Same here, had nothing with chicks that I have known for a while.

Most of my success came when I met chick out in the real world for the first time who know the people I'm with. They sent a friend request to me but I didn't accept - I responded by sending a quick private message and got the date after a 2/3 message exchanges. This worked on more than one occasion.

Another good one is if they are in your friends list, is to ignore them when they chat to you online, only to reply a couple of days later by private message keeping it short and leaving 2/3 days before responding - online chat is a fail.

The only use of FB is a second chance to get a date with women you have interacted with in the field, but for whatever reason didn't get their number.
Yeah, I've noticed that too. Back when I used to go to college, I would sometimes ask a chick for her Facebook. Then she would accept it, and sometimes talk to me... But lately, being stuck at home with no car, I've had to resort to meeting chicks I haven't really seen in person for a while... These are all chicks on my friend lists that I knew from HS BTW.

I guess, it really doesn't work if you never knew the chick that well.
 

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I met my GF on Facebook. I would see her post through a common friends posts. I would always comment something funny and she would always post back and fourth. After a particularly heavy day of hilarious posting I friended her and she accepted. Now she could see me post where I was going and where I had been checking into. Mind you this girl is absolutely gorgeous so I did put a bit of time and energy into gaming her, and giving her good "facebook".. lol. Then I posted some DHV pics of be doing cool stuff like diving, hanging with friends. I asked her out in private message shortly after, she denied. I didnt sweat it at all, just kept gaming her like before. Then she posted on one of my "going somewhere" posts saying that was a cool spot and that she used to go there when she lived in the area. So I invited her again and she came with two bodyguards... cute ones. We hit it off and have been inseparable ever since.
 

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"I've had a crush on you for years."

ElStud said:
Well, I've been researching Facebook game and I've tried a few openers. These were mainly on chicks I knew in High School, but haven't talked to since... Stuff like...

"You're into Anime? That's kinda dorky, but I can live with it I guess".

Just something non-threatening that doesn't kiss their ass, nor shows interest.

It's based off a formula for openers I found in this one Facebook guide or something.

However, for me, it hasn't worked. I've tried that type of opener on atleast 4 chicks and I just don't end up getting a response in the end.

So can Facebook game actually work if I don't already know her that well?

I just saved your virginity OP.

If you don't try this you are a phaggot
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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