Does dating a single mom make sense if you dont want kids/marriage?

[jurry]

Seems like this might be a good idea, shes not going to be needy and pushing for marriage and settling down with kids because shes already done it. As I get older this would be more common anyways, what are your experiences?

Ive never been with a mom, I did go on one date with one who was smoking hot like hotter than 90% of the girls ive dated, however she seemed evil and like she would totally rape your soul.

 

[badboyjmm]

It makes no sense at all, unless she cannot make children anymore or that you have a vasectomy.

For the marriage thing, as long as you are not living with her you should be fine. You also have to prepare to walk since that women won't understand why you guys are not sharing the same place and after a while, she will definitely want to get married

Problem is that once you get conformable and you start hitting raw the possibly of a ''Oops I'm pregnant and I want to keep it'' is greater

 

[Mike32ct]

Plenty of single moms still want marriage. They want you financially tied to her and her kids.

 

[DragonBlood]

Problem is that once you get conformable and you start hitting raw the possibly of a ''Oops I'm pregnant and I want to keep it'' is greater

This. It makes no sense at all insta-dad. Find someone more stable. Do you think she gives the slightest **** if she has more kids?

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Seems like this might be a good idea, shes not going to be needy and pushing for marriage and settling down with kids because shes already done it. As I get older this would be more common anyways, what are your experiences?

Ive never been with a mom, I did go on one date with one who was smoking hot like hotter than 90% of the girls ive dated, however she seemed evil and like she would totally rape your soul.

Depending on her age yes you are right, they get pumped & dumped a lot. I think a lot of guys are waking up and are just having ONS with single moms. That's all I use to date pretty much before coming to SS. That's all I've been meeting lately too is hot single mid 20s milfs...it f*kin blows.

The only time I enjoyed it was with a broad my age a couple yrs ago, kids grown up and doing their own thing.

Her tubes were tied too so that was a nice little bonus. Badboys right but sh*t that can happen with any chick with kids or without.

 

[Solomon]

Plenty of single moms still want marriage. They want you financially tied to her and her kids.

This guy gets it

:cheer:

 

[El Payaso]

Dating a single mom is a bad idea. Period.

 

[YawataNoKami]

Almost every rash decision in life can be fixed; theft, bad credit, becoming substance dependent, gaining 500 pounds, hell even some life sentences get paroled! There are only 2 things, off the top of my head, that can’t be: death sentence and popping out a kid (notice the correlation…lol). With that in mind, there is no excuse for having a kid to somebody without knowing every possible nuance! Most ‘oops’ stories are BS and cases of entrapment, deception, or irresponsibility!

When I was younger i dated a single mom.Worst mistake ever.The reality of it is, that single moms will trap you. They can't help but do so. They know their kid needs a father, and that is what you become. The surrogate father, the band aid on a war wound. She fvcked up, chose the wrong person, was dumb enough to have a kid with them... that is the bottom line. When you step into that situation, you are a means to an end. She will do what she can to get you interested, she will make those first months so fvcking wonderful you can't explain it.
BUt they will use you. REmember this, and if you have already started dating a single mother, you know: you will come last. You are the least most important thing on her list of priorities. Yeah man, you. THis is exactly the opposite with a woman who doesn't have kids. A single mom cares about her kid, herself, her extracurriculars (b/c she has to fight have any),her baby daddy, her friends, her family and then you. Once she has you, meaning, once she ropes you into developing a relationship with her child, you will move to the very end of her priority list.

Trust me. DOn't believe me? Wait.
That's when she has you. Because if you are a good man, once you've developed a relationship with her kid, you won't leave. You will feel obligated to stay. ONce he starts calling you "dad" you won't want to break his heart. She has you. You will continue to come in last. She will start asking more and more of you. Things like alone time with her, romance and passion will no longer exist. Sex will become conditional, she will treat it like a chore. You will see all of this unfold slowly, before you can realize how deep you are in.
DOn't believe me? Try it, see what happens.
AVOID SINGLE MOTHERS AT ALL COST! AVOID SINGLE MOMS AT ALL COST- NO MATTER HOW HOT SHE IS, OR HOW NICE SHE IS. AVOID THEM. You can do better. You deserve better. Remember that.

 

[bigneil]

My first love was 2 years younger. I loved her from age 17 to 23. By then she had a kid from another man. I dated her again after that. It was instant welfare mom, living in the projects on food stamps. Do you think she became more faithful to me then? No, she got a lesbian lover, then had 2 more kids from 2 more dads and is now single. She makes fun of me for dating younger women and reminds them that they won't be any more faithful than she was, but I remind her that at least they are 20 years younger than her. Beautiful women in general are too corrupted to be faithful in 98% of the cases.