Im foreveralone and really havent been a socialable person since last semester of college. I still find it awkward sometimes talking to people and girls especially. I grew up pretty much sheltered and didn't go out much to be sociable with other people. My parents divorced and I lived with my dad and crazy stepmoms. I rarely saw my regular mom. My dad has been pretty much whipped by every woman and his life and bowed down to them. He actually blew my first experience with a girl and ive refused to talk to him about girls ever since. Most of my friends couldnt get girls so i never met girls through them or could talk about them to them. I didnt come here till I had my second experience with a girl my late senior year of high school. Just wanted to share this.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Does childhood have something to do with success with women
- Thread starter JPlaya
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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youngmack
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Same exact thing with me JPlaya.... My social life is completely GARBAGE, i blame that and my inexperience with girls on my parents. They're so strict and paranoid they always want me home, i can never get to go out and experience things like a normal teen should be doing. Whats worse is that i was raised by my mom so thats most likely why im an AFC right now. I didnt really have a father figure in my life so i guess this is why im so emotionally weak.
youngmack
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Yeah the fact that im a little older now i am starting to experince new things and yes i finally have some experience with girls.They are a little less strict now
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Ihateinitiatingalot7
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i have Asperger Syndrome, that is a big reason why, and i transferred, went to 3 high schools, have limited job experience.
I was raised in a mental asylum. Luckily, I can pick crazies out a mile away. Also, there were so many nurses, women have never scared me.
On the minus side, when it gets to the time of comparing notes on childhood, girls laugh...then realize I'm serious...then about half of them never see me again.
On the minus side, when it gets to the time of comparing notes on childhood, girls laugh...then realize I'm serious...then about half of them never see me again.
SgtSplacker
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My parents were suuuuuuper strict, they never let me basically do anything it sucked. I had to sneak out of my house every night for like my entire junior and senior year. Literally I had to slide out of my bedroom window 100s of times, crazy. My parents ended up separating and that affects me even today. I know I have ended a couple relationships because I just didn't think it would last for some reason. Trying to avoid what they went through. Unfortunately love for me is a bond easily broken...