Im foreveralone and really havent been a socialable person since last semester of college. I still find it awkward sometimes talking to people and girls especially. I grew up pretty much sheltered and didn't go out much to be sociable with other people. My parents divorced and I lived with my dad and crazy stepmoms. I rarely saw my regular mom. My dad has been pretty much whipped by every woman and his life and bowed down to them. He actually blew my first experience with a girl and ive refused to talk to him about girls ever since. Most of my friends couldnt get girls so i never met girls through them or could talk about them to them. I didnt come here till I had my second experience with a girl my late senior year of high school. Just wanted to share this.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Does childhood have something to do with success with women
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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youngmack
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Same exact thing with me JPlaya.... My social life is completely GARBAGE, i blame that and my inexperience with girls on my parents. They're so strict and paranoid they always want me home, i can never get to go out and experience things like a normal teen should be doing. Whats worse is that i was raised by my mom so thats most likely why im an AFC right now. I didnt really have a father figure in my life so i guess this is why im so emotionally weak.
youngmack
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Yeah the fact that im a little older now i am starting to experince new things and yes i finally have some experience with girls.They are a little less strict now
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Ihateinitiatingalot7
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i have Asperger Syndrome, that is a big reason why, and i transferred, went to 3 high schools, have limited job experience.
I was raised in a mental asylum. Luckily, I can pick crazies out a mile away. Also, there were so many nurses, women have never scared me.
On the minus side, when it gets to the time of comparing notes on childhood, girls laugh...then realize I'm serious...then about half of them never see me again.
On the minus side, when it gets to the time of comparing notes on childhood, girls laugh...then realize I'm serious...then about half of them never see me again.
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My parents were suuuuuuper strict, they never let me basically do anything it sucked. I had to sneak out of my house every night for like my entire junior and senior year. Literally I had to slide out of my bedroom window 100s of times, crazy. My parents ended up separating and that affects me even today. I know I have ended a couple relationships because I just didn't think it would last for some reason. Trying to avoid what they went through. Unfortunately love for me is a bond easily broken...