"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Does C/F work w/ friends

Ladiesssman

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If C/F works for opposite sex, what affect does it have on same sex and friends?

What about colleages at workplace? with your bosses? employees?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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C&F generally makes people look up to you because they have no way of really knowing if you're being genuine or not. For example, I just make ****y outrageous comments with a hint of truth in them when I'm just hanging out with my buddies and we all have a good laugh after I say it.

But when something big happens, I show them I walk the walk and talk the talk and they're like, "damn he's got his **** together." As I've said before, it's good to throw in once in a while as a "topping" but it can't be the bulk of your behavior because it gets anooying.
 

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I would imagine ifyou do it too much to professional colleagues or co-workers, they would view you as childish.
 
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