"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Does C/F work w/ friends

Ladiesssman

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If C/F works for opposite sex, what affect does it have on same sex and friends?

What about colleages at workplace? with your bosses? employees?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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AFK Protector

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C&F generally makes people look up to you because they have no way of really knowing if you're being genuine or not. For example, I just make ****y outrageous comments with a hint of truth in them when I'm just hanging out with my buddies and we all have a good laugh after I say it.

But when something big happens, I show them I walk the walk and talk the talk and they're like, "damn he's got his **** together." As I've said before, it's good to throw in once in a while as a "topping" but it can't be the bulk of your behavior because it gets anooying.
 

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I would imagine ifyou do it too much to professional colleagues or co-workers, they would view you as childish.
 
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